Disclaimer -
This is not a theologically sound post – just some thoughts that came to me while reading.
“Google” gave me some interesting definitions when I typed in '”Lies vs White Lies vs Fibs.”
Examiner.com:
“Lie – a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive.”
Wiki:
“Fibs are lies without much importance and they are harmless.”
Funtrivia.com:
“White lies are used to avoid offending people, often avoiding realistic implications of the truth.
example: “That dress looks pretty on you.”
Fibs are childish/insignificant lies.example: “I didn’t take the cookie from the cookie jar. Steve did.”
All of us have told a “white lie.” - if you haven’t can you share your secret on HOW you haven’t. It’s not something any of us are proud of – we just do it.
Some of the most common “white lies” are:
- “You look just like you did in high school!”
- “Don’t worry, he won’t bite.”
- “I’m fine.”
- “Of course I remember you!”
- “This won’t hurt a bit – just a little discomfort.”
- “ The Doctor will be with you in a moment.” (however, I’m not sure this can be considered a “little” white lie!)
We often say things so we won’t hurt another’s feelings… Or maybe we just don’t have time to go into details so we glibly give a simple answer..
Whatever our reasoning we often rattle off an answer or give a simple statement that isn’t always the truth.
What are the most common “white lies” you hear? – or that you tell?
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